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<\/a> Fill* and The Boy \u2014 Auckland Hospital, March 2019. <\/span><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\nAfter three months at home and regular physiotherapy, he returned to full-time work in July. He’s a little over people telling him how lucky he was. But oi<\/em> was he lucky<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n My father died in May.<\/p>\n He was 92 and he’d had an excellent innings (he loved his cricket). His natural athleticism may have skipped me entirely and gone straight to his grandson, but I’m grateful to have his patience, perseverance, and tact.<\/p>\n My father had some unfinished business and I volunteered to sort it out. In June, The Lovely Wife<\/strong> accompanied me to Samoa.<\/p>\n The wife loved<\/em> the heat and humidity \u2014 apparently we’ll be visiting each year henceforth \u2014 and the pace of life there is glacial. Nice if you live there, a little frustrating when you’ve only a few days to get stuff done. It was a welcome interlude, considering.<\/p>\n Half-way through the year, my dreams began to have a recurring theme involving some massive weight slowly crushing me.<\/p>\n ‘Twas only The Kitten<\/strong> missing me.<\/p>\n Still Life With Chickens<\/a><\/em> is in its second year of touring. This year it did a couple of stops in the North Island, did a circuit of the South Island \u2014 and in August, it had its Australian premiere.<\/p>\n The Lovely Wife and I attended the premiere where we had a grand yarn with Martin Edmond<\/a> and Mayu Kanamori<\/a>, and we explored the Emerald City<\/a> by tram, bus and ferry. Still Life <\/em>is off to Shanghai<\/a> later this month for its Chinese premiere.<\/p>\n Somehow, amidst all of the above, I persisted with my masters course.<\/p>\n * This teddy bear joined the Mamea Aiga in Christmas 2002 when The Boy, then aged six, announced his arrival: I got a teddy bear and his name’s Phil!<\/em> The Lovely Wife and I exchanged looks and asked where the name Phil came from. It says so right here<\/em>, The Boy said, turning over the sewn tag: “Polyester Fill”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" There’s a lot of ground to cover in this part, so let’s leave the pictures to do the talking. In March, The Boy was in a frightful car accident and was hospitalised for a month. Fill* and The Boy \u2014 Auckland Hospital, March 2019. After three months at home and regular physiotherapy, he returned to full-time work in July. … <\/p>\n<\/a> The Reverend Moe Silipa Mamea (retired), 1926\u20132019.<\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n<\/a> Mount Vaea from Togafu’afu’a \u2014 June 2019<\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a> The Lovely Wife on a ferry \u2014 Sydney Harbour, August 2019.<\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n